Thanks for answering the question submitted by me.

yea, i agree with ks_chenyah. i was in a relationship when my bf thought i always wanted to be right, and i had no idea why or how, or that he even felt that way.i still don't know why, considering the only time we ever were together is if he decided our every move, so it's still striking to me that he thought that way. i can admit, it would have helped us alot if he would have said something. instead, we spent 8 months fighting about petty stupid things, me never knowing where his hurt was coming from, and eventually it ended, horribly. i do encourage you to try to talk to her about it.. i know how girls are though..and its seems scary, adn i know that she miht be upset, but all in all, i think the outcome could be better then the life you are living right now.  she does need to realize that you both are human, she can't be lord over you. the wife is meant to sub,it to the husband, and the husband is charged with being worthy of it. i know that this doesn't really exist in many marriages nowadays, but she needs to know that you are head of the household. she doesn't have to obey you, neccisarily, just to be respectful and helpful in decision making, and to know when it is time to let you be the head of the house, and to love you. thats about it. i think you should talk it out. i would hate to see another marriage ended.